R@J aur Sweety ka Scribble Pad

 Tonight I was listening to some of these songs. They are amateur singers but have amazing lyrics....      

 As I listened to one of the videos R@J had shared, I started to reflect and draw parallels to my life. Letting Go... This is not easy. It takes some crucial life's experiences and a whole lot of conscious effort to let go. I think age and the maturity that comes with age also helps a little in rationalizing the reasons and the need to let go. Looking back to my 20s, I would have never ever understood this concept. I had such a hard time accepting the reality of the situation and letting go. I caused a lot of pain to many people around me at that time because of that. Fast forward to now, I realize the importance of letting go to find peace. I can't believe I am trying to practice that in my life with people, food, habits. Introspection and strong urge to prioritize what is important to stay calm and peaceful helps me in finding the strength I need to let go and remain unaffected. Letting go is the secret of life, the emptiness creates more space for newer experiences! Love wit...

In one of our endless and timeless chats, Sweety told me, "It's hard to deal with family, especially when they’re all old and complain a lot :)" My immediate response was, "As we age, our opinions become more rigid. Letting go is the only way out." As I thought more about it, a question arose: " Do we truly understand what letting go means? And what is its purpose? Here’s what I came to understand: Letting go is the process of releasing attachment, control, or expectations tied to people, situations, or outcomes. 1. Releasing Emotional Attachment: Letting go involves detaching emotionally from things that no longer serve you — whether it's a person, a past hurt, or an unfulfilled desire. 2. Acceptance: It’s about accepting things and circumstances as they are, including those you cannot control. It’s not about changing or fixing them, but acknowledging and embracing them. 3. Forgiveness: Letting go often requires forgiveness — whether of yourself or oth...

Sweety shared a link about soulmates , and as I read it, a fundamental question emerged: "How many soulmates can a person have?" Maybe I'm over-idealistic, but when I think of soulmates, I imagine having a partner who embodies the roles of a friend, philosopher, guide, and lover. It’s a truly rare and beautiful connection — one where both individuals can be vulnerable, grow together, and support each other in all aspects of life. When all these qualities exist within one person, the bond becomes incredibly strong, resilient, and enriching. A friend in a partner means having someone to laugh with, share your joys and sorrows, and rely on for emotional support. A philosopher brings depth to the relationship, offering wisdom and the ability to engage in meaningful conversations that challenge and inspire personal growth. A guide helps you navigate through life’s uncertainties, offering direction and encouragement during tough times. A lover connects you on an intimate level,...

As an introvert, I'm not used to being the center of attention and tend to shy away from the spotlight. Public displays of affection make me feel especially uncomfortable, and even receiving affection in private can sometimes feel awkward. I often find myself unsure of how to respond in those moments, feeling a bit out of my element. However, over the past four months, things have started to change. Talking to Sweety every day for hours at a time, I’ve found myself gradually enjoying affection in ways I hadn’t expected. The conversations, the small gestures, and the emotional connection have made me realize that affection doesn’t always have to be overwhelming or public. It can be something quiet and intimate, a shared moment between just the two of us. I’m learning to embrace these moments more comfortably, finding joy in the genuine connection.  It’s still a bit of a journey for me, but I can see how affection, when given in the right way, can be something I not only accept but a...

Came across this on youtube. I don't know if this can be applied universally. My experience has been that the second time we fall in love, there is a host of emotion. It is more layered and more complex.  I never experienced betrayal, however, I just never could get out the second love. Thereafter the Mind works overtime, and never lets you put your guard down The heart might want to love with abandon, but the mind holds back, constantly cautioning and second-guessing every emotion. In my case, my second love blossomed again as the third love, the feeling was amazing. but mind always played overtime, constantly cautioning.  I wonder what other experience.

The only thing I have in my control and can give is love and the only thing I want is love. I want to continue to love you and think of you every minute of my life until my last breath. You have become an integral part of me and will stay in my heart and mind forever.  I don't want to make any attempt to restrict my thoughts or divert my mind. I feel at peace loving you and giving myself to you. I am very thankful and grateful for your presence in my life wherever you are.  I also know you can never find anyone else who loves you like I do. Whether you choose to be at the receiving end or not is your choice. Too bad if you choose not to for whatever reason, you are definitely going to be missing out on this once in a lifetime opportunity for this life! I hope whatever you choose is worth the sacrifice of my love. Songs on the playlist and the blog will speak to me in your absence.  My hope to be with you will never die! Remember that however long it may take ...

Jab jaan ko dil se nikal kar, kisi kone mein basna pad jaye, Tab samajh aata hai, ki zakhmon ka apna ek rang hota hai. Dard ka kya, woh toh har pal saath tha, Dard se ishq usse jaayda kar baithe,  hum ishq mein aise kya dooba gaye, Ki bin dard ke, zindagi be-rang ho jaye. Usne kaha, “Jab yaad aaye, toh chand ko dekh lena," Chand ko dekh kar, akhon mein aansoo bhar aaye. Us dard ki talash mein, dilkash raaton ko bhi andhera kar dala, Dil ka bhikarna toh bas purnima ki raat mein likha tha. Har yaad se, aankhon mein nami bhar jaaye, Ab toh yahi umeed hai, ki kam se kam amavasya ki raat mein, Thoda sa sukoon mil jaye. Aur phir kabhi, chand ko dekhne ki himmat na ho. Jab jaan ko dil se nikal kar, kisi kone mein basna pad jaye.

When we go through the worst times alone We don't really care about who stays or who wants to stay in our lives anymore The struggle becomes so consuming that the need for validation or reassurance fades away In those moments, we realize that the only person we truly need to rely on is ourselves. People sticking around is a distraction, while the mind searches for the quite secluded space Lying can be incredibly tough, maintaining a false version of reality is emotionally draining Guilt, anxiety, and a sense of disconnection are not worth the silly pleasure

Mein ek baar phir tere khayalo mein khoya rahata hoon vo wakt tha jab har lamha tera intezar karta tha Din ho ya raat bas tujeh hi yaad karta rahata tha Khud ke khushi se jaayda teri khusi ki dua ki Na mulakat karne ki himmat thi na hi baat karne ki   Dil ke kone mein bas tujhe basa rakha tha samay bitha raha, par kona vohi raha Dihre dihre duniya ko dekhne ka nazarya badal gaya, par kona vohi raha Bhagya ne phri pata nahi kya katha likhi Ki hume phir amne samne khada kar dala Iss baar kona nahi, pura dil hi kabza kar dala Mein ek baar phir tere khayalo mein khoya rahata hoon