Anomalies in life

We cannot tell anyone about that one person with whom we share everything 

Society often has its own rules or expectations, and societal rules about what’s "acceptable" or "normal" can be restrictive. Relationships are indeed complex and don't fit into what society finds acceptable.  The deepest bonds are the ones that remain outside the lens of society’s expectations, and the beauty of those relationships lies in their privacy.

We confide when there is quiet understanding and unspoken trust, where we can just be without being judged or seeking validation. 

The world is never going to agree on a definition of who you are. 

We will always be brave in someone's mind and coward in another's, strong to one and fragile to another, good to one and terrible to another. We will be seen as annoying to one and comforting to another. Some will feel anxious around us and some will find peace in our company. Some will see us as "too much" while others will see us as a gift.

The world will look at you from their subjective point of view. So we might as well live the way that feels true to our heart.

Chasing perfection is futile

We don't need to do anything to be loved. We spend our lives chasing perfections like trying to be prettier, smarter etc. However, Those who love us see us with their hearts and find attributes and qualities beyond those we really have. And those who don't want to love us will never be satisfied with all our efforts. I am tempted to add my favorite quote (which of course Sweety hates) -  "Gadhi par dil aa jaye toh Pari kya cheez hai"..... This means "if you fall for a donkey, even an angel fails to impress you"

Imperfections define us

We forget that our imperfections make us human and our intentions really matter. We only need to focus on doing things with the right intention. At the end of the day that is all that matters. Ultimately, When we act with good intentions—whether in our relationships, careers, or personal growth—that genuine energy shines through and often leads us to what’s meant for us. What is due to us will come searching for us, whether it is love, relationships, career, or just personal growth.