Saturday Alu pokodi and thoughts...

Ah, a Saturday evening with alu pakodi—crispy and warm! It sounds like the perfect time to unwind and let your thoughts flow. There’s something special about enjoying a snack like that, especially when it’s paired with a moment of reflection on the week that went by... So here is whats on my mind 

- A private life always helps.. you can keep it a secret until you win

- Theoretically starting over is easy, and can be done at any time. Overcoming the inertia and thinking     about what others will say is the hard part

- People will disappoint us, so never trust anyone, draw the boundary, and ensure it is respected

- When we love someone we overlook their flaws and weakness

- Sometimes these flaws and weaknesses will bring you anguish.. live with it

- Building a relationship to fill a void in our life is the biggest mistake we make

- When a promise turns into a sorry ... probably it is time to leave

- Silence speaks louder than words, walking away from an argument is important for maintaining mental peace.

- Build yourself such that you are irreplaceable, never talk about it .. let people take their time to recognize your true value 

- If someone takes you for granted,,.. Say nothing, do nothing... someday they will realize what they traded off

No reflection ever makes sense unless accompanied by music. Today my mood wanted some heavy metal.





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