Nostalgia! A comfort Factor…

Last two weeks have been a beautiful journey down the memory lane…While we accept the reality we are in today, we continue to delve into the past a little bit time and again! Do memories make us happy? bring solace? deter us from reality? Where will this journey take us? How to balance past, present and future? We have to live the life to find out…



Seems familiar? Stuck on repeat, reliving that "epic fail", that "one-time glory” or that one moment where we felt we were in our element!


Newsflash!!! Life isn't an episode of FRIEND's that can be rerun in an endless loop. It's an adventure movie with a plot twist around every corner.


Trading in the worn-out sweatpants for a brand-new adventure suit and buckling up for the rollercoaster ride of life, embracing ups and downs and enjoying the loops and corkscrews is what it is meant to be. 


While nostalgia brings in certain amount of comfort factor it is important to find the balance between past and the present while looking forward at the future with a hope! 


While pressing delete on the rewind is not easy, but hey, we can at least pretend. And pretending is the first step to a life less ordinary. Sadly, most of us get the memo about deleting the rewind button around the time our hair starts falling out or turning into questionable shades.


Trusting that the future is an adventure that is going to be worthwhile and conditioning our mind to fall in love with it is the secret ingredient to happiness. 


PS: Raj’s thoughts twisted, turned and posted by Sweety 22/7 :)

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