Friday buffet

 People and situations are like a buffet: some are delicious, some are bland, and some are straight-up gross. But it's up to you to decide what to eat and how much to savor.

You'll meet sweet people like a dessert, challenging like spicy food, and educational like a cooking class. But the ones you really want on your plate are the ones who make you realize you're the main course.


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