Burning Bridges - a matter of conviction and resovle

Humans naturally gravitate toward preserving options, driven by an aversion to limiting choices. The mere thought of relinquishing alternatives triggers anxiety and frustration. For e.g We maintain an array of open windows on our laptops, even while engaged in crucial tasks, swayed by the allure of notifications from emails, LinkedIn, or messages that interrupt our flow.

Likewise, our closets host garments untouched for years, bound by sentimental value, appearance, or cost. The OLX India motto, "Purana jayega tabhi to naya ayega" (Only when old is removed, can the new arrive), resonates, urging us to release the past first to embrace the future.

When venturing beyond our comfort zones, uncertainty often prompts us to cling to alternatives, akin to having a lifejacket while venturing into uncharted waters. This hinders our full commitment, it is similar to not swimming wholeheartedly knowing that we have a lifejacket at hand.

We see this often, parting messages when people leave organizations they sugarcoat their time and experiences, this exemplifies bridge preservation, just in case the new pursuits falter. 

Sun Tzu's (Art of War) counsel to "burn your boats and bridges" upon crossing the river, symbolizing unwavering resolve to do or die with no option to retreat.

I recall an offer from Angel Investors during my master's program, where after our (my team and I) pitch, he offered us funding if and only if we served ties with our current job roles. We were stumped and just could not answer then and there. In retrospect, the offer sought to test our conviction and dedication to our vision. While our idea was brilliant, we simply did not have the courage to go ahead.

Sun Tzu's wisdom, of declaring an unwavering commitment to our chosen path with no option of retreat applies to all aspects of life and we only give in our best if there is no option to retreat. 

In my own spiritual journey, the Olx tagline, "Purana jayega tabhi to naya ayega," has served as a steadfast reminder, nudging me to gracefully release various elements/facets of life, creating mental space and welcoming fresh opportunities.